It's great to pursue our own will as well as accomplish things, and I'm also one of them who vigorously try to find my way following intuition, normal 20s' something living in a capital city, Tokyo. However, if such feeling accelerates unconsciously, it's a bit dangerous. It's because that being obsessed with ourselves leads us to have less space to care about others. For sure, various severe situation can make it difficult for people to have extra space for others, yet other than that, it's always possible for us to make more effort to keep an eye on others.
Honestly speaking, every now and then, I forget very basic fact that I cannot live alone.(I mean it "mentally") It sounds shameless and ridiculous but true, so I've constantly got to reflect on things going on in my daily life, for instance, who did what, and what's for.... remember subtle behavior...in detail. And then, there will be so many things I can realize through that reflection. Like, "oh yeah, I'm given much more than giving." and I might be able to do something in return for him/her. I don't mean it material return but some action which shows appreciation. Or even not be given anything, if there is someone bothered or seem to need some help, why not suggesting him/her to eat out, having drinks? My action could be totally useless, but who knows. Might be. Sometimes people just need someone to hear their stories and problems.
From so many experiences that I'm supported by others, I think I need to think of others and do something in return or do something when it's necessary for others. Pursing my dream is important but I should consider people and things around me. Oh, this is like telling myself through writing here:) Anyway, I hope that there is someone to support you when it's needed and also you're the one who support them at some point too.
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