How can we make it happen to be together again?
That's the hardest assignment for us since I'm living here in Japan and he's being kind of on the other side of the earth, Finland.
Simply thinking, getting married is the most common way to be together. Yet for me, it just sounds something for making an excuse about myself. At the moment, finding a job and make a living by myself is the first thing to do and of course saving money for next step, going to Finland or some other country. That's why I'm struggling how to make things go with him right now.
Though hardship smashes up me every now and then, I love to have that feeling which tries to lead me go more further in order to get close to him. Learning, understanding, and looking at things with cool nerve. Indeed, passion should be considerably necessary at the same time, yet more than that what long-distance demands would be an objective point of view. Aaand, keep those balance is a key point.
It wasn't so easy that I got in a relationship with him since he had been mighty stubborn and insisted it's impossible to keep the relationship over countries.
Well, it might not be possilbe but who knows our future? There is always some possibility, I think. Or I would say, the one who can make things possible is just ourselves. Everything really depends on us. If we feel like doing something, go for it. First, take an action then think and see how it will go.
My persuasion had have continued on him almost for three months, and eventually he ended up saying " give it a shot". After I moved back to Finland, he visited me in the summer, it was surely the first visit to Japan for him with bumping into many culture shocks:) After that I visited him in Finland last month.
Because our start wasn't that easy, now we've been able to handle this long-distance somehow. I wanna tell people who are in the same kind of situation, "yes we can!" :)
I surely make things work! and be together in the future.
Here is a song by Joe Hisaishi, which is our favorite one. You can be so relaxed.
