acceptance

A load of memories piled up for long term can never be rewritten even after ages. Unlike PCs, our mind don't have a button called "delete"which is capable of erasing whatever unnecessities right away. Instead of deleting, waiting till it's gone is the only thing we all human being can do.
But how long it does take? No one knows, proabably it might never vanish. The high-tech world still doesn't help us at this point but just exaggerate the fact we're human being that hasn't changed rapidly like technologies do.

Waiting till it's gone sounds like a never-ending story....
After all, acceptance is only way to make things better. Accept as memories are, accept as your feeling were in the past, accept as your feeling is at present....

Acceptance isn't that easy in reality though, what else to do?
We've gotta accept...


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the way I am and the way people are

Introducing ourselves for the first time in Japan, it's frequently taken for granted that the first thing to say is what's our name and then what kind of job we're doing. I'm always stuck at this point, why it should be like that in the first place even though not knowing one another well enough. What I mean is that a job itself does have little things to do with a personality; nevertheless, some people tend to look on others with a pair of colored glasses soon after getting to know what they're doing as a job. For sure, in order to deepen our understanding, it would be necessary to gain that kind of information, yet not necessarily from the start.

"The way people are is more important than what they're doing."
That's what I've thought all the time.



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social networking

Facebook, twitter, mixi...a bunch of social networking sites are being on a continual development, which doesn't know the end. Frankly, I'm a bit scared that it gets to be generalized more and more to join those social networking sites as if not being a member means something wrong.

Indeed, sharing thoughts and experiences sometimes makes some change in our life to the better, but on the other hand, an information overload generates confusion at the same time. My opinion is like this, "we don't have to know everything about matters as well as people" . The reason is pretty much simple, it's because there is a case that we can stay in a peace by not knowing things too detail. One of japanese proverbs also says the same thing, "what you don't know can't hurt you".

Apparently, the world we're living in has plenty of paradoxes.



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かけら

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かけらを




ひろっては
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ほんとうに
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わからなくなってきた
今日この頃


それでも
必死に
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父のかけらを

泣きながら
また
ひろうんだ

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